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August 2018

• When the going gets tough… the tough get going… really, really? Or really, really, really, really?

  Posted on Mon, 6 August 2018

  There have been times in my life when this has been too true, sometimes to my own detriment, because I have ignored my own authentic needs and pushed harder and faster to achieve what I thought I needed to achieve. I have a large body of students that I guide on their self-development journey and I take that responsibility & joy to heart and always work for their highest will and good. It’s not because I’m a guru or saint, I’m not, I’m way to human for that (even though a saint is just a sinner who never gave up) I’m on the path like everyone else and sometimes I stumble and fall. I have learnt (through extensive training) to train my ego to go into service to my soul and in doing so have an infinite resource of patience,...Read More

• How do you respond when someone is selfish and mean spirited?

  Posted on Sun, 5 August 2018

  First of all, I would like to thank Joanne for this question and I will try to answer it to the best of my ability.

  It is difficult not to take this behaviour to heart especially when it comes from a loved one, close friend or associate. This behaviour tends to come from not being able to see beyond self at any one given time, people get stuck in what they think are their pressing needs and the drive to fulfil those needs takes precedence over everything else. At that moment they cannot see the big picture or have a real problem seeing the situation from anyone else point of view (they are stuck in their own delusions/story and unfortunately ego gone crazy). It maybe when someone thinks they are being asked to step up to the plate and change a behaviour which might take them out of their comfort zone, or they feel they...Read More

• Achieve your goals 'automatically' by developing good habits

  Posted on Sat, 4 August 2018

  Do you have a big goal you want to achieve?

  This may include losing weight, getting out of debt, starting a relationship or developing your spiritual life.

  
  If it is a big goal, it will likely require consistent action on a daily basis to see the goal achieved.

  "Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out."
  Robert Collier

  For example, to achieve a goal of losing weight, you need to eat healthy food EVERY DAY and exercise CONSISTENTLY in order to reach your goal weight. No matter how great the diet is, if you don’t stick to it, it won’t work. Similarly, for a goal of running a marathon you need to train over a period of months before you can realise your goal.

  "We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit." Aristotle

  
  As Aristotle puts it, we are what we...Read More

• Are you running your life or is your life running you?

  Posted on Fri, 3 August 2018

  Do you increasingly feel at the mercy of inner and outer conflicts that you believe are beyond your understanding or control? Whether you are aware of it or not, the various pressures imposed by your home and work environments take a daily toll on your physical and emotional well-being. When these are accompanied by low self-esteem, avoiding difficulties, or denial that there are any problems, the consequences can be very damaging to your relationships, to work, and, most importantly, to yourself. Your distress or discomfort may not just manifest itself in feelings of victimization and powerlessness, however unwanted habits and addictions are also a strong signal to yourself and others that all is not well. Taking control of your life means deciding that you are going to be the "driver" and not simply a "passenger," and taking full...Read More

• Meeting my Twin Flame and a Life Happy Ever After

  Posted on Wed, 1 August 2018

  In 2006 I had the experience of meeting my Twin Flame (Close Soul Mate) nothing that I have read or thought I understood prepared me for this meeting. I have to acknowledge that I had a somewhat romantic view on this event and had imagined a much different experience. I met this man whilst teaching a workshop and realised that there was a big connection between us, however I usually feel a big connection to all the participants and to be honest this actually felt no different than that.

  As part of the follow up of this particular workshop I decided that I would hold a group support evening once a month. Four weeks later just before leaving on holiday I held the first group and this man, and another colleague were the only ones to attend. It was a very relaxed evening working through some of the post workshop assignments and chatting about...Read More

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